What does it take to be the happiest people on Earth? Helen Russell dives headfirst into the heart of Denmark, where hygge reigns and the pursuit of happiness is a national pastime. With her wit and charm, she navigates the richly woven tapestry of Danish life — from cozy homes filled with laughter to an enviable work-life balance that seems almost mythical. As she uncovers the secrets behind this Scandinavian marvel, readers journey with her through frosty winters and sunlit summers, questioning the very nature of happiness itself. Can anyone truly live Danishly?
In "The Year of Living Danishly," Helen Russell embarks on an adventurous move from busy London to rural Denmark after her husband lands a job at Lego. Immersed in Danish culture, she sets out to uncover why Denmark consistently tops global happiness charts. Through witty observations and personal anecdotes, Russell explores Denmark’s unique lifestyle, from its pronounced work-life balance and deep-rooted sense of hygge to its strong social welfare and robust trust in government. As she adapts to new customs and navigates cultural surprises—including long, dark winters—Russell reflects on the broader meaning of happiness. Her engaging memoir blends humor, research, and introspection, offering insights into what it means to truly live "Danishly" and whether these lessons can be applied elsewhere.
Helen Russell begins her Danish journey reluctantly, as her husband accepts a job at Lego’s headquarters in a remote part of Denmark. Leaving behind the hustle of London, she anticipates a year filled with challenges and cultural shocks. Early on, Russell is struck by the Danes’ unique approach to life, particularly their ability to create cozy, contented spaces—the concept of hygge. This national preoccupation with warmth, comfort, and togetherness is evident in homes and social gatherings, helping Danes not just survive but thrive during the dauntingly long winters.
Russell quickly realizes that living Danishly is also about intentional work-life balance. She discovers that Danes prioritize time with family and leisure over excessive work hours. The welfare state provides robust support: affordable healthcare, generous parental leave, and free education, all contributing to reduced stress and greater wellbeing. Russell contrasts these policies with her UK experiences, noting how the Danish system fosters a society where people feel cared for and secure, despite paying high taxes.
Integral to Danish happiness, Russell finds, is a deep sense of trust within society. Danes trust their neighbors, government, and institutions—resulting in low crime rates and a collaborative spirit. Janteloven, or the Law of Jante, underpins a cultural code that prioritizes collective good over individual ambition. While this sometimes stifles overt displays of success, it reinforces equality and discourages envy, affording citizens peace of mind and camaraderie.
Throughout her year, Russell wrestles with what happiness really means, reflecting on material wealth versus life satisfaction. She learns that Danish happiness is less about constant joy and more about contentment, balance, and realistic expectations. The Danes’ open discussions about mental health, acceptance of imperfection, and focus on community suggest to Russell that happiness is a holistic experience that grows from shared values and mutual respect.
The transition is not without difficulty—Russell grapples with isolation and the nuances of local customs. Yet, month by month, she adapts, finding meaning in small pleasures and building new friendships. Ultimately, Russell’s immersive exploration suggests that, while no society is perfect, Danish living offers valuable lessons about the pursuit of happiness: intentionality, social support, and community can transform even the longest, darkest days into a life worth celebrating.